Imagine you have a friend, he is in his late 20’s and you have known him for over 3 years now. He has a prospective career ahead of him, is single and wealthy for a person who is under 30 years of age.He has made so much positive impact in your life, not only you but also to many others.
To describe his character, he is humble, generous, outgoing, trustworthy, intelligent and much more. Name any positive trait a person can have and you bet he has it. He has no bad habits such as smoking, partying, scolding vulgarities or drinking excessively.
People enjoy spending time with him and you never hear anyone gossiping or speak ill of him.You always seek advice from him because he is a very good listener to your problems.After all these years of friendship, he never broke his trust or did something behind your back. He is undeniably the greatest friend you ever had.
You might be wondering why a person like him is still single. Many out there did fall in love with him,be it with the right or wrong intentions, but he chose to remain single(he is not gay) due to reasons unknown.
Here comes the climax, the person you claim to be your greatest friend has a very dark secret. He has a secret desire, not a single person but him knows about it.
He spends almost every weekend at a brothel. Basically he pays women to sleep with him to satisfy his desires. You managed to find this out after a month of following him secretly.
How would you feel after seeing this? Would you throw away the friendship? Would you feel betrayed? Would you talk to him about it?
It seems heartbreaking to witness this and more importantly he is the last person you can imagine doing this due to his amazing character. You never suspected him all these while because he respects other women in his life, and the way he treats a lady is with respect and honesty.
Imagine if others know about this secret. How would they react. The majority would lose all the respect they had for him. They would make stories about him and call him ‘fake’ and forget all the kind things he used to do in the past.
Can we think much deeper? He is performing an act which is deemed wrong by many. But did he cheat on anyone? He is single and most probably he chose not to be in a relationship due to this “secret desire” He is not having a scandal and he only does this to women who are willing to perform it for money. There is no struggle or crime involved in his desire for lust.
Instead of blackmailing or ignoring him, one should lend a helping hand. Would you suspect all the sincere deeds he has done for you after finding out about this? If yes, then you can stop reading this.
Nobody is perfect, we all have flaws and sometimes some people hide it well enough while others flaunt it openly as if it is a special ability. People will avoid a person for his/her flaw even if that person has other supreme qualities which are beneficial to mankind. Most of us are guilty of gossip(telling others about a flaw of a particular person).
As a true friend, one should hide the flaw of a person and only share their positive traits. I am sure you would want others to do the same when they talk about you to others. We always do things on our own will and sometimes we do not think before we speak. That’s all folks. Till next time!
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